Today we will discuss about Muslim Marriage Tip. How Muslims can utilize their marriage and be successful thereafter and in the Dunya.
*TEN (10) GOLDEN SECRETS OF MARRIAGE:*
*TO THOSE WHO ARE MARRIED AND/OR ARE PREPARING TO GET MARRIED SOON*
1. *EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A WEAKNESS*
Only God has no weakness. Every rose flower has its own thorn. If you focus too much on your spouse’s weakness, you can’t get the best out of his/her strength.
2. *EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A DARK HISTORY*
No one is an Angel, therefore, avoid digging one’s past. What matters is the present life of your partner. Old things are passed away. Try to forgive and forget. The past can’t be changed. So Focus on the present and the future!
3. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS IT’S OWN CHALLENGES*
Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every shinning marriage has gone through its own test of hot and excruciating fire. True love is proved in times of challenge. Fight for your marriage! Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need.
4. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS DIFFERENT LEVELS OF SUCCESS*
Don’t compare your marriage with anyone! We can never be equal, some will be far in front and others far behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time, your marriage dreams shall come true.
5. *TO MARRY IS TO DECLARE A WAR*
When you marry, you must declare a war against enemies of marriage. Some of the enemies of marriage are Ignorance, Prayerlessness, Unforgiveness, Adultery, Third Party Influence, Stinginess, Stubbornness, Lack Of Love, Rudeness, Wife battery, Laziness, Divorce, etc. Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.
6. *THERE IS NO PERFECT MARRIAGE*
There is no ready-made marriage anywhere. Marriage is hard work, volunteer yourself, and perfect it daily. Marriage is like a CAR with Gear oil, gearbox, back hassles and If these parts are not properly maintained, the car will break down somewhere along the road and exposing the occupant to unhealthy circumstances. – Many of us are careless about our marriage… Are you? If you are, pls pay attention to your marriage.
7. *ĀLLAH WILL NOT GIVE YOU THE COMPLETE PERSON YOU DESIRE*
He *ﷲ͜عَزَّوَجَــــل* gives you, him or her in the form of raw material in order for you to mold what you desire. You may desire a woman who can pray for 1 hour but your wife can only pray for 30 minutes. With your love, prayer, and encouragement, she can improve.
8. *TO MARRY IS TO TAKE A RISK*
You cannot predict what will happen after marriage, as the situation may change, so, leave room for adjustment. Pregnancy may not come in the next 4 years. You may get married to her because she’s slim but she becomes 100% fatter after a child. He may lose his beautiful job for years that you have to take the financial responsibility of the family until he gets a new job. But with God by your side, you will smile at last.
9. *MARRIAGE IS NOT A CONTRACT, IT IS PERMANENT*
Marriage needs total commitment, love is the glue that makes a couple stick together. Divorce starts in the mind. Never think of divorce! Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married! God hates divorce
10. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS A PRICE TO PAY*
Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money you deposit into your bank account that you can withdraw. If you don’t deposit love, peace, and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate for a blissful home. There is no free love in marriage, You cannot love without giving and sacrificing.
May *ﷲ͜عَزَّوَجَــــل* bless us all.
*?̶«̶ آمـــــين يَارَبَّ الْعَــــالَمِينْ «̶?*
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